Last week, I December’s holiday upheavals from your pet’s perspective. Frantic activity, changing schedules, trees, candles, bows, parties, music … yikes!
Now we’ll look at another holiday dog issue: The Gift Pet. Combine over-the-top cuteness with the unstoppable persuasive powers of children or grown-ups (who are still children at heart) and it’s no wonder that puppies, kittens and other young creatures top many holiday gift lists. Experts caution against it, but the irresistible allure of a bow-collared puppy romping with over-stimulated, pajama-clad children is just too much to resist.
But the joy can be short lived. Unlike toys, pets require more than love to survive. Pets, like people, thrive on routine schedules and consistent care. Puppies have more in common with children than other pets, and thus require early socialization and training as well, to ensure a lifetime of cooperation.
And so consider your gift list this year. If you have the willpower, you can give your “surprise” package a few days after the holidays, or perhaps, before. An overstimulating day full of noise, trinkets, and racing around is often unsettling to a young animal whose only desire is to feel safe and nurtured.
Here are some tips to ensure the holiday pet has a positive transition into his or her new home. While these tips apply to adoption at any time of year, holiday pets are vulnerable to the extra excitement that befalls December's special days.
1. If you’re focused on giving your pet present on a specific day, wait until the excitement has waned to bring him or her into the room. Instruct everyone to put away toys that might otherwise entice or startle him, and urge them to stay calm. If more than one person will be vying for face time, work out the plan ahead of time (either holding the new pet, or having the kids flip a coin to see who holds the pet first) to avoid a meltdown. Plan out your day and the first few weeks ahead of time. My book, "Puppy for Dummies," lays this out nicely.
2. A puppy is not a stuffed animal. Ok, that’s a little obvious, but puppies are more similar to pre-verbal toddlers than to any other pet you’ll find in a pet store. Like children, puppies do best with a regular schedule. Stay one step ahead of your pup’s basic needs with pre-established feeding times, organized playtime and comforting nap and bedtime rituals. Puppies raised without a set schedule can be fussy, and fussy puppies nip, chew and roughhouse more.
3. Make housetraining priority number 1. Whether you chose to use papers or go outside, make potty training your puppy a complete obsession. Wiping up little puppy puddles may seem like no big deal, but understand that your puppy is learning habits that will last a lifetime. Decide on one place for potty training, and take her there after feeding, sleep and playtime. For more detailed housetraining information, visit my Web site or refer to one of my puppy books.
4. Practice my signature “Loving Touch” technique. When your puppy is calm, sit in a four-legged chair. Make an open space beneath your legs and bring your dog under the chair. Pet your puppy with an open palm in long, soothing, loving stokes. This calming gesture simulates a mother dog’s grooming ritual. You’ll use this grounding interaction to calm your dog throughout his life.
5. Leash train your puppy. A very young puppy will stay near his family, but puppies grow up quickly. It won’t take long before your wallflower is darting off to wander and explore. A leash will ensure her safety. A young puppy happily accepts new experiences, so begin leash training between 8-10 weeks.
Are you giving a pet this holiday season? If so, what kind of puppy and to whom are you giving it?